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What to do after a death (Canada): a practical step-by-step guide

If you're reading this in shock, start here

It’s normal to feel disoriented. This page is designed for grief brain.

If you’ve just had a loss, you might feel numb, foggy, or like you can’t take in information. That’s normal. If the text feels like it’s “swimming,” read only the headings and bold text — and do just the next tiny step.

Permission: You do not need to do everything today. Most families only need to (1) confirm the medical/official pathway, (2) choose one point of contact, and (3) make a simple plan.

30-second reset (optional)

  1. Feet on the floor. One hand on your chest, one on your stomach.
  2. Inhale 4 seconds… hold 2… exhale 6. Repeat three times.
  3. Say out loud: “I only need to do the next step.”

🔴 STOP — do only this right now (first 30 minutes)

A short plan for the immediate moment. Everything else can wait.

STOP — four steps

  1. If the death just occurred or is unclear: call 911. If you are told it is non-urgent medical guidance, ask what number to call next (many regions use 811 for health advice, but it varies).
  2. Secure the home: lock doors, gather keys, put ID and important documents in one place.
  3. Call one trusted person: to be with you or stay on the phone while you handle the first step.
  4. Today you can stop after the essentials. You are allowed to do less.
72-hour money rule (protect yourself): Avoid large financial decisions for 72 hours (unless essential). Ask for written quotes, and don’t agree to upgrades under pressure.

Priorities that reduce overwhelm

Use this as your ‘Today / This week / Can wait’ plan.

🔴 TODAY

  • Confirm where the death occurred and who is responsible
  • Find out if the coroner/medical examiner is involved
  • Choose one trusted person as the “main contact”
  • Contact a funeral home (if using one) and ask for a written estimate

🟡 THIS WEEK

  • Medical Certificate of Death / investigation updates
  • Death registration + ordering death certificates (province/territory)
  • Notify key organizations (Service Canada, CRA, banks, insurer, employer)
  • Secure home/insurance requirements if property will be vacant

🟢 CAN WAIT

  • Detailed estate/probate steps and tax filings
  • Digital accounts, subscriptions, device access
  • Sorting belongings (do this when you’re ready)

If you do only one thing today: confirm whether the death is being treated as expected/non-investigative or whether the coroner/medical examiner is involved. That single answer changes timelines and paperwork.

1) First hours: the process depends on where the person died

Start here — location changes the pathway.

  • At home (expected death): call the person’s family doctor, home-care nurse, or hospice/palliative care team. They advise the next steps and arrange the medical documentation.
  • At home (unexpected, sudden, or unclear): call 911. Police/paramedics may attend, and it may be referred to a coroner/medical examiner.
  • In hospital: the care team or bereavement services guide you, including belongings and what paperwork happens next.
  • In long-term care: staff follow protocol and explain next steps; you can begin choosing a funeral home.
Canada note: Many provinces/territories have a health advice line (often 811) — availability and routing varies. For non-urgent police needs, use your local non-emergency number.

2) Medical documentation (Medical Certificate of Death) and investigations

This determines timelines and what can happen next.

In Canada, a clinician completes the medical documentation when the cause of death is known and the death is not suspicious (often referred to as a Medical Certificate of Death, though naming can vary by jurisdiction). If the death is sudden, unexpected, accidental,violent, or otherwise requires investigation, it may be referred to a coroner or medical examiner (process varies by province/territory).

  • If there’s an investigation, timelines can change and some steps must wait (for example, release of the body or certain documents).
  • Ask your assigned contact: “What can we do now, and what must wait?”
  • If using a funeral home, they usually coordinate with the hospital/coroner and guide paperwork.
Memory aid: Keep one note with names, office numbers, case/reference numbers, and dates. It prevents repeat calls and confusion.

3) Choose support: funeral home (common) vs arranging privately

A funeral home can reduce admin load. It’s okay to choose simple.

Most families use a funeral home to help with transportation, paperwork, and coordinating burial or cremation. You can also manage arrangements privately — but you’ll need to confirm requirements with provincial/territorial authorities and service providers.

  • If you have cultural or religious time needs, say so early (it affects scheduling).
  • If cost matters, ask for a written estimate with essentials vs optional items.
  • If you feel pressured, use this phrase: “Please put that in writing. We will decide tomorrow.”

4) Register the death and order death certificates (province/territory)

In Canada, Vital Statistics is provincial/territorial — timelines vary.

Death registration and death certificates are handled by your province or territory (often through Vital Statistics). Funeral homes typically submit the registration, but confirm who is doing what and what information you must provide.

  • Ask: “When is registration submitted, and when can we order certificates?”
  • Consider ordering multiple death certificates if you’ll deal with banks, insurers, investments, property, and government programs.
  • Keep copies of forms and reference numbers for benefits and estate administration.
Practical tip: Some organizations accept certified copies or verification, while others require an original certificate. Ask each organization what they need before ordering extras.

5) Notify government programs and key organizations (Canada)

Start with identity/income items, then work through the rest.

Common places to notify

  • Service Canada (CPP-related benefits, OAS where relevant, SIN record updates, and related programs).
  • Canada Revenue Agency (CRA) (tax matters; estates often have filing obligations).
  • Banks, credit cards, loans, mortgage provider, investments.
  • Insurance (life, home, auto) and benefits plans.
  • Employer (final pay, pensions, workplace benefits).
  • Utilities, phone/internet, subscriptions, landlord/condo as needed.
Paper checklist (it’s normal to forget):
[ ] Service Canada notified
[ ] CRA noted / future filing plan
[ ] Bank(s) contacted
[ ] Insurance contacted
[ ] Employer contacted (if applicable)
Phone script you can read verbatim:
“Hello — I’m calling to notify you of a death. Please tell me exactly what documents you require, whether you need originals or copies, and what the next step is. Can you also confirm a reference number for this call?”

6) Funeral decisions (keep it simple, keep it true)

You usually have time unless there are urgent cultural/religious needs.

  • Choose burial or cremation.
  • Decide on the ceremony format: religious, non-religious, or a blend.
  • Ask for a clear quote and confirm what’s included vs third-party costs (cemetery fees, celebrant/clergy, notices, flowers, etc.).
Cost control: Ask for the simplest dignified option first, then add only what matters. The biggest price drivers are often venue/time, transportation, and printed materials.

7) First estate tasks (starter steps)

Focus on safeguarding and the executor/estate trustee role.

  • Locate the will (if any) and identify the executor/estate trustee.
  • Secure the home/valuables; check insurance rules if the property will be vacant.
  • Gather key documents: ID, banking/investment statements, insurance policies, property/vehicle documents, and any notes about digital accounts.
  • If pets are involved, arrange short-term care quickly.
Estate rules and probate vary by province/territory. If there are significant assets, debts, conflict, or complexity, consider speaking to a qualified professional in your province/territory.

⚠️ Canada-specific fraud and pressure warnings (important)

Bereaved families are often targeted. Protect yourself with simple rules.

  • Be cautious of unexpected calls/messages claiming to be CRA, “urgent estate lawyers,” or “government agents.” Don’t share personal information unless you initiated the contact using an official number.
  • Watch for pressure tactics: “You must decide right now,” “This discount expires today,” or “Everyone chooses this upgrade.” You can always say: “We will decide tomorrow. Please email it.”
  • Reduce identity theft risk: secure mail, consider forwarding, and keep IDs/documents in one place.
Safety rule: Ask for written confirmation of costs and requirements. If something feels off, pause and get a second opinion.

Common questions

Quick answers that reduce uncertainty.

How many death certificates should we order?

Many families order multiple copies for banks, insurers, investments, and government programs. If unsure, start with a few and ask each organization what they require (original vs copy).

Do we need a funeral home?

No — it’s optional — but it can reduce admin load and help coordinate with hospitals/coroners. You can arrange privately if you’re comfortable managing the steps.

What if the coroner/medical examiner is involved?

Timelines and documents can change. Ask what you can do now (planning, notifying family) and what must wait (release, registration/certificates timing in some cases).

Next steps

Pick the one that matches what you can handle today.

Velanora provides practical information, not legal advice. For legal certainty, consult a qualified professional in your province/territory.